Fuck Off
Hey-
Sometimes we all get a bit tired of taking the shit. The following post is just that. Sometimes you just don't want to fuck with me after a long week and then a long weekend of battles with some kids that are clearly great kids who have parents that are making life more difficult for them than it should be.
Anyway, I always just take it, I always just let it go, I always take the high road. This morning, I didn't. I'll probably be paying for it for a long time. But WTF, I have to pay anyway, but I don't have to lay down and take it.
Gin Hahn,
T
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Man I feel better just READING that post! I can't imagine what it was like to write it!
You go T-Dawg!
Again, I don't know much about the situation, but from the limited info. I have absorbed through life, it is about f'n time you said that...(although I am not exactly sure having a record of it in writing is the best)....
Congrats on having the kishkas to get that off of your mind. Sometimes people need to be refocused...I hope this helps her do that. I hope it makes you have a little more self-respect and peace too. I hope the boys don't have to choose sides for much longer-- that is a shitty place for them to be.
I hope that you continue to be the awesome father you are. I know that the boys will recognize that fact and your effort when they are older. I suspect they'll see who made the poor choices too. I also would guess that they'll know who made the sacrifices.
Clearly, you and the Queen were not good at being married to one another. That doesn't mean, however, that you can't be good parents-- whether that be together or independently.
I hope that people get the message and stop robbing you of your time and effort. I hope that you don't waste another second of your day on the same either....
If you need to vent, give me a call...Otherwise, chin up and Gin Hahn!!
S
Yeah, thanks. Its really good to have a place where you can just let it go sometimes. Thank Al Gore for the web and the relatively anonymous-ness of it all.
I was naive when I thought that we could be good parents and divorced. I should have known my partner better.
And granted, my rant was a bit childish and possibly uncalled for... but a guy can only take so much. and honestly, we never we really partners.
Like Uncle Jesse says in The Dukes of Hazard Movie... " Why does divorce cost so much? Cause its worth it"
A phrase echoed again, and again, and again...
Gin Hahn,
T
PS-
In case I left it off at the start, I do feel better.
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